WEBSITE CURRENTLY BEING REBUILT - AUTUMN 2024
An eminent solicitor involved in a lonely-hearts scam, a great-uncle who fought in the Indian Mutiny and the Boer War, a grandfather who was decorated by the Emperor of Japan and my father’s service in China in the RAF. Just some of the fascinating facts I’ve unearthed in building this website.
When I and my brothers, David, and James, were younger, we used to spend quite a bit of time at our aunt, Jean Morrison’s, house in Bratton, Wiltshire. It was always fascinating to be allowed to go through the boxes of old family photographs and hear her stories about our relations. Since she died, all those memorabilia have been stored away in boxes out of sight. The Covid-19 lockdown finally gave me the chance to collate some of it into this website and I hope the younger members of the family will now use it as an e-scrapbook to learn more about our family history. You can now also view the Family Tree.
Leanne and I went to Scotland in August 2020 and found out quite a bit more about the Scottish side of our family. We visited the home of the Connells, the Isle of Lismore in the Inner Hebrides off Oban and then Dollar, the home of the Lattas.
Finally, a big thank you to my friend, Adrian Walker, and my niece, Claire, who helped me with the setup of this website.
Hugh Walton
This website is dedicated to my father, John Walton. Born in London in 1915. Died in Tunbridge Wells 2011 aged 96. Also to my brother,James Walton, who passed away on 30 August 2024
This website is dedicated to my father , John Walton. Born in London in June 1915, he died in Tunbidge Wells in 2011.
Mother of David, Hugh & James, Pauline Walton, was born in 1917 in Lyminge, Kent. A journalist all her life, she died at Sevenoaks in 1987 aged 69.
Aunty Jean, my mother's sister. Born in 1912, died in 2006. Nearly all the pictures on this site are from her collection.
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My maternal grandmother. Born in Scotland in 1883 and went to work in Hong Kong aged just 19. Died in 1957 aged 73.
Joseph Haynes: Hugh’s great, great, grandfather. A solicitor born in London in 1813. Lived in Pall Mall and Laverstock. Died in 1896 aged 83.
Walter Hart Haynes: My great grandfather. Lived in Laverstock, Wiltshire. Born in 1846, died in 1917.
Edward Court Haynes: My great great uncle. Born in 1837. A soldier who saw service in the Indian Mutiny, the Zulu & Boer Wars. Died 1901
Paul Haynes: My great-uncle. Born in 1876. He had a distinguished naval career but died of fever whilst returning from India in 1922.
Builder of this website. Born in London 1947, currently retired from the travel business and living in Dorking
Born in London in 1953, sadly passed away 30 August 2024. A successful restauranteur, he leaves behind Sheriden, Jamie Ann and Natasha.
Born in 1941 and currently living in Alrewas near Burton on Trent.
My maternal grandmother. Born in Scotland in 1883 and went to work in Hong Kong aged just 19. Died in 1957 aged 73. Grandmother to David, Hugh & James. Great grandmother to Helen, Nicholas, Christian, Julia and Claire, Jamie Ann & Natasha. Great great grandmother to Devon, Imogen and Erin.
Granny was born Jessie McColl Connell on 19th October 1883 in Garabal, Glen Falloch close to Loch Lomond. She was one of eight children, the daughter of a dairy farmer. She was very well educated and, at a time when careers for single women were very rare, she set off for Hong Kong aged just 19 in 1902 as a governess to a half English, half Chinese family. This must have been a real adventure at the time but one she obviously enjoyed. There’s a picture below of her sailing - dressed in a long dress - in Kowloon harbour.
It’s not clear when she actually met our grandfather, Montague Haynes, but we think it must have been on her voyage out to Hong Kong as he was travelling at the same time from England to Japan probably via Hong Kong and most likely on the same ship. Whatever the truth, they were married in St. Andrew’s Cathedral, Nathan Road, Kowloon on 31 March 1906. Leanne and I were in Hong Kong in 2014 and realised that our hotel was a few hundred yards from the cathedral, so we had a look round. Their’s must have been one of the first weddings held there as the cathedral had not opened until a few months earlier.
They returned to England on leave in the summer of 1906 and there’s a picture below of them at that time. Her new husband returned to Japan just before Christmas that year whilst she was pregnant with her first child, Mary Frances, who sadly died aged just seven weeks
in April 1907. Montague Haynes did not return from Japan until March 1911. I haven’t established whether he had any UK leave in the 4+ years he was away although I think it unlikely bearing in mind that the journey would have taken about three months each way.
My aunt, Jean, was born in April 1912 and my mother, Pauline, followed in December 1917. In 1919, they moved into 224 Upper Grosvenor Road, Tunbridge Wells. Granny did not work as her husband was still away at sea for much at the time. She wrote children’s verses and secretly contributed to various magazines and papers. Secretly, because her husband, 15 years her senior, was jealous of her outside interests. How times have changed!
In 1953, they sold their house in Tunbridge Wells and moved in with my parents in Kensington where my grandfather died the following year. When my parents went to India in 1954 & 1955 she lived with my aunt in Bushey and latterly in Bratton.
Her last few months were to put it mildly, a sad end to a full life. She suffered from pernicious anaemia, heart attacks and was given blood transfusions which her doctors described as “miracle injections”. They may have helped her physical health, but they affected her mental health so badly that she ended her days on 5th May 1957 in a mental hospital in Devizes, Wiltshire. My mother later wrote an article called ‘Better to Die?” which is probably too upsetting to post on this website but illustrates how far we have come in the treatment of mental health.
There seem to be very few photographs of Granny in her later years so if you have any please forward them to Hugh
Leanne and I were married at Kew Gardens on 2nd August 1997. They said it wouldn’t last but as we celebrated our 27th anniversary in August 2024 it has! We’ve had lots of adventures with more to come!
John Connell: Without the people in the top three pictures, none of us Waltons would be here today! This is John Connell (1854-1913) born on the Isle of Lismore who married Christian Latta (right) in Dollar in 1880.
Christian Latta Connell: Christian Latta (1855-1924) married John Connell (left) in Dollar in 1880. John’s work as a shepherd at first took them away from Dollar. Their second child was my grandmother, Jessie McColl (right).
Connell Connell: Connell Connell, the eldest child of John & Christian Latta. Born 1881 in Kilmanorock (not Kilmarnock!). Emigrated to Australia after WW1 and had 14 children!
David Connell: The youngest child of John & Christian Latta born in 1900. At the start of WW1 he lied about his age to join up as a drummer boy. He too emigrated to Australia after WW1.
Isabel Connell: Isabel Connell, ‘Aunty Belle’, was born in 1888 and was the longest surviving of the 9 Connell children. She married George Davidson and adopted Peggy. Died in 1972.
Elisabeth Connell: Elisabeth Hogg, Aunty Lisbeth, was the daughter of John & Christina Connell. She helped run Kenmore Farm in WW1 before marrying James Hogg and moving to Aberfoyle.
James ‘Jim’ Connell: James ‘Jim’ Connell - son of John and Christina Connell - seen here boarding a troopship to France in 1915. Like his brothers, he came through the war uninjured and emigrated to Australia.
Christina Connell: Christine Connell, daughter of John & Christine Connell, was a nurse in WW1. After her mother’s death in 1924 she took over the running of Kenmore Farm & Dairy in Dollar.
Connell Connell (7): Connell Connell (2nd from left) aged 7 was drowned in a tragic accident whilst playing at Dollar Mill in 1914. There was always a Connell Connell in every other generation and his father of the same name was told that the accident happened because he did not leave that generation gap between them. i.e. he should have called his son anything but Connell.
James Hogg, Uncle Jimmy, married Elisabeth Connell (see above), Aunty Lisbeth. They moved from Dollar to Aberfoyle where he was the village policeman for many years. Their daughters were Christian and Sheina.
This is John Latta aged 71. He had a carting (transport) business with his brother, James, and they built Kenmore Farm & Dairy in Dollar for his sister, Christina.
Throughout this group you’ll find numerous references to Laverstock. It’s a small village 1½ miles north-east of Salisbury in Wiltshire. One of its main buildings was Laverstock House.
In August 1788 an advertisement in the Salisbury & Winchester Journal describes it as follows: Laverstock House. For Insane and Lunatics.
William Finch respectfully informs the Guardians and Friends of those who are unhappily afflicted that he continues to receive and medically treat Patients in all the various stages of the above disorders. He flatters himself the extensive practice he has had for more than fifteen years past, joined to the success that had attended his tender and humane treatment, will be sufficient testimony of his abilities.
The situation of the house has many advantages, being large and airy; together with extensive gardens walled round so that his patients, at proper times, enjoy the free country air with little or no idea of confinement.
In the 1850’s Joseph Haynes purchased Laverstock House. He also purchased The Avenue, a nearby property, which he used as his country house. This was ‘home’ to his family in the way that his London houses never were. When they were abroad, as most of them were at one time or another, they referred to Laverstock as home, they lived there as a family and many of them were buried in nearby St. Andrew’s Church.
His son, Dr. Stanley Haynes, and a Dr. Henry Manning, who became his son-in-law, were Medical Directors in charge of the medical treatment at Laverstock House.
The 1871 census lists the following as residents of The Avenue:
Joseph Haynes 55 Solicitor
Mary Haynes 52 Wife
Jane Adela 18 Daughter
Walter Hart 24 Son. Law student.
Maria 24 Daughter-in-law
Clara 3 Grand daughter
Montague Robert 1 Grandson
Plus three servants aged 20, 24 & 17
Sadly, neither Laverstock House nor The Avenue exist today. St.Andrew’s Church is still there with many Haynes family graves.
Lismore, or Lios Mór ‘Great Garden’ in Gaelic, is a small island in the Inner Hebrides about 10 miles from mainland Oban. It’s home to about 170 inhabitants.
The Connells from whom we’re descended, lived in Balnagown, Lismore, from at least the 1750’s and probably even before that.